Psychology of Attracting Women
It’s got nothing to do with magic sprays or hypnosis but it’s something you’re going to need to know if you’re going to have incredible relationships with amazing women.
If you want to know why women are attracted to the guys they are, then you have to first clarify who the women are that you’re learning about the psychology of attracting women to attract. Then, because all women are different, you need to narrow it down to the kind of guys that the they’re attracted to.
I’ve written a post that will help you do this, called: Attract Women
Please read it because without it, the psychology of attracting women wont make sense.
Now, the secret about the psychology of attraction that you haven’t been told about.
What is it about these guys that makes them attractive?
Why is the woman of your dreams attracted to a guy who lives his life for himself and doesn’t wait for anyone to make him happy that makes him so attractive to women?
To understand this, think about it form her perspective.
She comes home from a hard day at work. Her boss is giving her a hard time and the deadlines are just piling up. She’s stressed, tired, and emotional.
What kind of person do you think she wants to come home to?
Do you think she wants to come home to a guy who’s needy and clingy and who needs her to be attentive and caring for him to feel good?
Or do you think she wants to come home to a guy who’s happy, content and fulfilled with his life and doesn’t need her to be anything so he feels good about himself?
Which guy is going to be able to give her the care and attention she needs to feel better without asking anything in return?
Which guy is going to be able to allow her to be whatever she feels like being without demanding anything of her?
What about a different situation: she’s out at a bar with her Man when she runs into an ex-boyfriend who she hasn’t seen in a while. She really wants to sit down and catch up with him.
What kind of guy do you think she’s going to want to be with?
Do you think she’s going to want to be a guy who’s happy and fulfilled who is happy for her to chat with anyone because he knows that regardless of whether or not she’s in his life?
Or do you think she’s going to want to be with a guy who’s so insecure and needy that he’s constantly worrying about whether or not she’s going to leave him?
Which guy is going to give her the freedom and space she needs in her life?
Which guy is going to going to let her do whatever she wants without putting restrictions on her?
The psychological mechanism at work here is the desire to be free.
The reason that the kind of Man who’s totally free and fulfilled without her in his life is so attractive to the woman of your dreams is that he doesn’t need anything from her.
When she’s around him, she’s totally free to be whatever she wants. If she wants to be happy, she can be happy and she knows that she’s going to have a happy person to play with her. If she wants to be sad, then she can be sad and she knows she’s going to have someone there to look after her.
She’s free to express herself openly without having to worry about anything that’s going on.
The secret of the psychology of attraction that you haven’t been told is that people are attracted to whoever will give them what they need in their life at that point in time.
A guy who’s totally free, fulfilled, and happy without her is free to give her whatever she desires in every moment.
A guy who’s needy, clingy, and waiting for her to make him happy isn’t. He’s always going to be demanding that she be something for him.
So, should you just go out and try and make yourself happy so that you’ll get the girls you desire? Well, that path contains a very dangerous trap and if you don’t know it, you’re not going to create the amazing relationships with women that you’re looking for.
You can find out all about that trap in EndGame.